drama anyone?

i have had the craziest week of my life. It all started Friday when Andrew and i took his step father out to dinner. We had found out on Wednesday that Andy's mom and him were getting a divorce and we wanted to talk to him about still being part of the family.

We had dinner without becky because we knew she wouldn't be happy with what we had to say. We told Joe that we wanted our child to know him as grandpa. becky doesn't agree with this because she is getting rid of him so we should to. she's mad because we like him more then her. well, she called joe's phone and andy's phone through the entire dinner and they never answered. when we left the restaurant andy checked his phone and his mom had left a message cussing at him and telling him that he is no longer part of her family and that he is dead to her. i don't care how made you are at someone you never tell your own son that he is dead to you. what is wrong with this woman! then she called back again and i answered the phone where she started yelling at me telling me that i am nothing to andy and it doesn't mean anything that i am his wife. she said that marriage doesn't mean anything and i am not really his family, she is the only one who really cares about him. yet 2 minutes before that she told him that he is dead to her! this woman is insane!

on sunday i had to see her at a baby shower and i just ignored her. i have nothing to say to her. i told andy's dad(i knew it would get back to her) that at this point in time we are not even going to allow her to be at the hospital because of all the stress she causes people. it is possible i found out. if you give the people at the counter her name they won't even let her on the floor.

so that was sunday, on tuesday i got a letter from becky that was an "apology", it was just short of saying what she really wanted to say and that is i don't care about anyone but i want to see my grandchild. she made 2 comments that really just made me mad. she said "I am going to forget about it". well! how easy for you to do. if you are the one causing all the drama it must be so easy to forget and forgive yourself! The other statement was "I love you because you are married to Andy." Wow becky, that's so sweet of you.

I wasn't going to respond to her but i decided that i should write her a letter. so i did. it says very nicely that i will not be coming around and neither will her grandchild until she gets help. She has to stop drinking and doing drugs for her to ever be aloud to see her grandchild. As a soon to be mother i think putting your child in a situation like that would constitute as child endangerment. I told her that we will support her if she decides to pick her family over her addictions and i hope that she decides to be a part of her grandchild's life. I also told her that until she gets help she is not going to be involved with any of this pregnancy journey. which includes the baby shower. I haven't heard anything so we will see how that goes.

THEN...yesterday on my way to class to take my first exam, a lady pulled out in front of tasha (she was driving) and we hit her. the car got hit on my side so i had to go the emergency room to make sure that everything was ok with baby. I am still to early to hear a heartbeat, i was there 5 hours and they just kept saying that there was nothing that they could do for me if the baby wasn't ok so they were not going to do an ultrasound to find out. i refused to sign the release until they did an ultra sound. finally they did and saw my little baby wave to me and hiccup. seriously, it was like 30 seconds of looking at it and that was enough for me to relax. they could have done that when i got there and i would have been fine.

tomorrow is friday and i am hoping that nothing else crazy happens cause i don't think i can take anything else this week!